That is also what horse-and-cart sellers said when they saw the first car. The lack of digital proof of payment is obviously not felt when you don't have it in the first place. The same for multi-signature contracts. The same for atomic swaps. None of these things are needed if they do not exist in the first place. People did not even need a roof over their heads until they built the first one.
I don't know either, but usual shipping is FOB - freight on board, so the seller pays half of it. And so the seller typically doesn't do shit until the money is there.
And when it comes to trade between untrusted parties, it starts slow. To build trust.
Though crypto is great to making faster payments, that's sometimes an issue, and it can save the seller from the buyer's scam, but on the other hand completely exposes the buyer to the seller's scams. (Because cryptocurrency transfers are non-reversible usually [as in ever, except with a hard fork].)