I don't get around to using plenty of things for the first time a year after I've purchased them. That policy in my life would be a nightmare of constantly rebuying stuff, or failing to rebuy stuff that is now gone forever.
Almost everything that has become indispensable in my life took years to integrate into my life to any significant degree.
> "Need" is a weasel word. You don't need anything.
That feels uncharitable to your parent commenter. By that logic we’d never use “need”, and your use of “significant” would also be a weasel word (I don’t believe it is, merely making a point).
While the words used are important, we should strive to understand the idea being transmitted and steelman the argument. “Need” is relational. Some things you need to survive (even if technically you don’t need to live, and here we’re getting too philosophical), other things you need to feel comfortable, or you may need a chair to reach a high place. In this case your parent commenter is clearly referring to a subjective level of need which differs for each individual and trying to make you reflect on the balance between the things you keep and how their existence in your day-to-day affects your life.
I would like to hear more about this.
So you buy a, say new air fryer, a new monitor, a new mobile phone or a new shirt and it takes you 12 months to first use it?
Or was this more like I buy 3 SD cards in bulk buy might not need 3 right now?
Do you live in a remote area where online shopping delivery is not available?
Is it just a habit? Honestly curious.
I know > 1 people who buy a new phone, leave it in the box for > 3 months and then finally have the time to move over their data and start using the new device
I’d own a lot less stuff if there were more opportunities to rent infrequently used items.
As it stands, I have a workshop and electronics bench with many tools that will go unused for years but are critical when I need them and too expensive to buy and throw away.
There is also the problem that people who sell their used stuff on classifieds think of their article to be worth as much of the original purchase price as possible, but don't think about the fact that people would rather buy new stuff.
In reality the mindset they should be having is that the buyer and the seller are doing a group buy separated in time, which means that both paying half the price of new is fair and should be expected.
> There is also the problem that people who sell their used stuff on classifieds think of their article to be worth as much of the original purchase price as possible
That is quite the frustrating state of affairs when you try to reduce your consumerism and buy second-hand. It’s not that uncommon to see people selling used items at the same price or even more expensive than new with warranty.
Almost everything that has become indispensable in my life took years to integrate into my life to any significant degree.
"Need" is a weasel word. You don't need anything.